Intimidating anal sex
Here are seven ways to help you get started, straight from the sex expert herself.
"There is a lot of misinformation, taboo, and stereotypes that can confuse and cause fear.
As the saying goes, prime real estate is all about location, location, location. You've always been curious about anal but have never known where to start.
And don't forget the lube — lots and lots of slippery lube to make your first time more enjoyable.
To set up in the Piledriver position, first, lie on your back and then allow your man to grab your legs and push them right back so that your ankles are literally by your head.
When you are in this very vulnerable position, your man will squat over you and enter you anally.
Quick Warning: While this tutorial video is quite distressing, it will teach you how to make your man scream with pleasure and become sexually addicted to you.
Certified Master Sex Expert and Educator, Sex Coach and "So Tight" Sensual Fitness Personal Trainer Nikki Ransom endorses the cowgirl position for anal newbies. D.), author, international speaker and Playboy TV's sexologist, offers an alternative to the cowgirl in her book , "If she doesn’t like the sensation of deep penetration, but he desires more stimulation against the base of his shaft, she can reach backwards with a warm, wet hand to grasp the lower half of his shaft.
Anal sex might sound intimidating to some, but it's definitely worth exploring or at least being open-minded about. You may even learn that you can orgasm from butt play.
Penetrative anal sex is especially great for hitting the A-spot, which can result in intense Os for some being such a pressure-sensitive area.
Making sure anal sex is always a fun and pleasurable experience with your man is important if you want to keep your sex life hot.
In fact, that’s the whole point of the Bad Girls Bible, hot, fun & exciting sex!
According to some saucy sexperts, these beginner anal sex positions are the perfect fit for first-timers: In the traditional cowgirl position, your partner lies down while you mount on top — yeehaw!